You are being helped!
Imagine that you've run out of gas on a lonely road, but you're open to friendly assistance. Like an answer to a prayer, a car drives up. A little, gray haired lady gets out. When she finds out what your trouble is, she goes back to her car and retrieves a gas can. Her assistance gets you on the road again. You smile as you realize that the world has a very friendly side to it when you open up to help.